A new chapter for Sammy Sinsss... with white guys !! With m..

A new chapter for Sammy Sinsss... with white guys !!

With my onlyfans, I've always lead with the intention of trying something new that I haven't done before, wanting to expand my breadth of work and grow with every experience. I've had many great experiences working with other queer performers of color, getting to connect with other sex workers over similarities and learning from the differences. I've wanted my presence to make a difference, make a change, an impact on the growing porn industry that is always in a deficit of healthy depictions of Asian and POC performers. The industry is not diverse enough, and still has very narrow and harmful ideals of what Asian and POC bodies should look like in relation to white bodies. For that reason, I focused on only working with other Asian & POC creators for 1.5 years. But as I've been reflecting on my experiences recently, I want to share that I intend to change this restriction and start collabing with white performers as well.

I've been very intentional with only working with Asian, Black, and Latinx performers to create more positive connections, solidarity, and representations of us together. My intention was to feel good about rectifying the lack of this in the industry. But I can say that in the pursuit of this, I have not always been treated respectfully or cared for on the same sake of race solidarity. I have had collabs w some performers where I did not always feel like my voice and opinions were centered, where I did not felt safe or pleasured, where I was was not treated with the same kind of respect I put out. I don't like posting collabs on my onlyfans that look hot for the viewers, but was not enjoyable to make behind the scenes. I don't like sharing work that I did not feel good making or is an inauthentic representation of my happy sex life. But I am writing this to share an authentic realization that I cannot expect every POC collaborator to be a good time. I realize that I cannot select my partners just based on their race, but based on how respectful they are towards me, how down they are to collaborate and not just dictate. This is why my twitter bio ends with: "DM me with kindness, respect, & care." Because my DMs are flooded with too many who come at me solely as a pleasure object, and I'm going to respond to the message that asks me how I'm doing, and sees me as a whole person. That, to me, is what sex really should be about.

I've decided I want to select my partners based on how much of a connection I can gather from them, cuz baby I have many hot options to choose from. I'd rather pick the hottie who's gonna make sure I'm ok than the one who walks out the door once we're done. I say this all to say that I am now open to collabing with more white guys from now on, while still focusing on positive poc representation. Hope you enjoy the hot collabs I have in store for you...

Here's to a new chapter of Sammy Sinsss ! (: