#97 - NEW CAMERA, IMPOTENCE, AND A HANDIE We've posted a to..
Added 2021-12-30 13:31:02 +0000 UTC#97 - NEW CAMERA, IMPOTENCE, AND A HANDIE We've posted a ton of videos where my body ruined the night... so @damiensoft decided we should share a time when *his* body wasn't working! Staying hard was more of an issue when we first started dating. Thanks to past abusive relationships, Damien needed to feel emotionally safe to stay up. My vaginismus certainly didn't help... it's not easy to stay turned on when you're worried about hurting the person you're trying to have sex with! As the video shows, it still happens from time to time. So how does a partner deal with it? *Don't think twice about it.* Damien feels bad when it happens, but I brush of his apologies every time and give him a nice, slow handjob instead. He needs to be assured that it's totally normal and that I'm not disappointed. If we try to talk about it too much or if he senses it makes me sad, he'll get in his head about it next time! Since impotence isn't very sexy, I won't be mad if you skip to the good stuff at the end 😉 OH! We also got a new iPhone with a muuuuch better camera! Damien was testing how it works in low light at the beginning 😂 It should make our future videos MUCH better!
